Ahh... [ it's like things finally clicked into place. She kneads at tight muscles, trying to loosen them ] so that's why you don't want the rest of us involved. I was thinking, that if you kept things to yourself because you were at least a little mindful of the effect it could have on us, then... Mmm... nevermind.

[ Maybe it's better not to go down this road. Feelings, the implication anyone on unit would actually care is such a land mine. ]